Thursday, September 30, 2010

Book Review - Rhett Butler's People

If you know me very well at all you will know that I am a least a little bit obsessed with Gone with the Wind. I have been since, oh about 7th grade when I first saw the movie in its entirety. Then I read the book! WOW! I was completely swept up in the antebellum era, the romanticized version of the Civil War and the book's protagonist, Scarlett O'Hara Hamilton Kennedy Butler.
Many of my friends have probably heard me mutter, "Fiddle Dee Dee", and I picked that up from Scarlett. I have so many favorite characters from GWTW - especially Mammy, Melanie Hamilton Wilkes, and of course, the infamous Rhett Butler. I appreciate the pictures Margaret Mitchell was able to paint in my mind of Tara, Atlanta, Peachtree Street, New Orleans and the battles of the Civil War.
As a high school student I eagerly anticipated the release of the book Scarlett, a sequel commissioned by the Margaret Mitchell Trust. I read it cover to cover as soon as my grandmother gave it to me. There were things I really liked about the book. I must say that even as a teenager, the whole storyline about Ireland and the O'Hara family seemed a bit of a stretch to me. I never thought Scarlett would just run away and I definitely thought it seemed out of character for her to sell/give Tara away to her brother-in-law, Will Benteen. I then watched the mini-series version of the book. Once again, the characters were alive on the screen. Sadly the Scarlett was NOT Vivien Leigh and the Rhett was definitely not Clark Gable! But it was decent and entertaining.
When I was walking through Barnes and Noble a few weeks ago, I was drawn to the sales table. There was a book on top called Rhett Butler's People. I picked up and read eagerly the synopsis of the book. It too had been commissioned by the Margaret Mitchell trust. It said it was the story from Rhett's perspective. I was instantly ready to read it. Instead of purchasing it that night, I made a note to check it out at the library the next time I was there.
So, I just finished reading Rhett Butler's People about two weeks ago. It was a quick read. I found myself questioning a few story lines. I was fascinated by the back story on Rhett and his family life growing up in Charleston. I love to read books about that area of the South. I wondered why both of these books were commissioned to be written by the same group of people and yet their stories did not match up at all. It has been several years since I read Scarlett, but I recall Scarlett going to Charleston after Rhett when he left at the end of GWTW. She settles herself in and tries to win him back - a believable plot. They have a love scene in the midst of a hurricane-like storm. He rejects Scarlett again and she leaves for Savannah to visit her mother and father's families. We find her setting off for Ireland and finding out she is pregnant with Rhett's child. On and on the story goes until at last, Rhett and Scarlett end up together.
In Rhett Butler's People, we find Rhett indeed leaving after Bonnie and Miss Melanie die. But instead of pursuing him, Scarlett returns to Tara. She works the fields again and fights off one of Rhett's enemies from Charleston. Rhett comes back at the end to help save the day and Tara is burned. WOW! What a twist and seemingly not real to me.
If somehow the two authors could have conspired and written interwoven tales, I think I would have been more satisfied. Don't misunderstand me, I still enjoyed being swept back up by Scarlett and Rhett. But I think throughout the book I was disenchanted and distracted by the discrepancies.
Overall, I would say that it has to be a difficult task to take characters that originated from one author and try to take them on as your own. Obviously Mrs. Mitchell imagined them and knew them best. Perhaps the Margaret Mitchell trust should not commission any more sequels and let her character be.

Tuesday, September 21, 2010

Put Your Feet Up

This was the scene in our home Sunday evening.
After a long afternoon playing outside, the boys had their baths and settled on the couch to watch their FAVORITE show - Extreme Makeover Home Edition.
I walked into the family room to see Blake and Noah with their feet up, covered with blankets, excitedly watching their show. Andy was climbing up to join in the fun!



Needless to say, I LOVE my boys! They definitely keep me on my toes and entertained.

Monday, September 20, 2010

Gleaming White

It is simply the little things sometimes, you know?
If you are a friend of mine, you already know of my obsession with PineSol. I LOVE it! I was down on my hands and knees cleaning my kitchen floor last night with it. The mop is ok occasionally, but I find I get the floor much cleaner when I just do it by hand (a little of my Mammaw coming out in me, I suppose). Then I could smell that glorious smell the rest of the night!
I detest cleaning bathrooms, but I must say after all that hard work scrubbing on a tub with soap scum and days worth of showers clinging to the sides, it is worth it. To look down on a gleaming white tub and know it was your elbow grease that got it clean brings some level of satisfaction to my day.
I must confess as I was scrubbing with all my might, I was thinking how similar this is to our lives as Christians. We fill our thoughts, words and days with grime from the world. An unkind word here, road rage, a temperamental child (and subsequent tantrum by a parent in response), a lost opportunity to minister there and our lives look like the griminess of my tub. PRAISE GOD! He has washed us clean! HE (Jesus) makes us whiter than snow. No amount of dial soap scum can defeat his redemptive power in our lives.
I am so blessed to be loved by a magnificent Savior who can wash away my sins. It reminded me of a hymn/chorus we sing at church:

What can wash away my sins?
Nothing but the blood of Jesus.
What can make me whole again?
Nothing but the blood of Jesus.
OH, precious is the flow,
That makes me white as snow.
No other fount I know,
Nothing but the blood of Jesus!


I pray your day will be filled with HIS presence and you can see the power of HIS work alive throughout your day!
Carrie Beth

Monday, September 13, 2010

Running Shoes and the Windy City

My husband had an AMAZING run in Chicago. I was so excited for him that I almost forgot I was supposed to be running there, too! There was such a BIG crowd. I believe the announcer said there were runners from 48 states and 30+ countries represented. There were 18,500 people registered to run. Greg ran 13.1 miles in 93 minutes and 57 seconds. He was 476 overall (out of roughly 13, 500 finishers). WOW!!!
Our friends Robby and Dave both did awesome as well!
We had such a fabulous time in Chicago. We missed our boys, but it was nice to spend time together, uninterrupted! We walked everywhere and got our fill of Michigan Avenue and all the shops. We ate stuffed crust pizza at Giordano's, GREAT Italian dishes at The Italian Village and got some of the famous Garrett's Popcorn.
We went down Navy Pier, walked through Millenium Park and to the Lego Store. We saw the sunrise over Lake Michigan and watched the people running in all directions. It was a fabulous little weekend trip. I am ready to go back next year!
I will load pictures tomorrow. We took some fun pics to show the boys. Noah asked me to take pictures of everywhere we went!
We came home to find out Greg's parents took the boys to the zoo, the park, their soccer game, out to eat and more. They were full of stories. Noah fell at the zoo and has a goose egg on his forehead (just in time for school pictures tomorrow). Andy fell in the driveway and has a large scrape on his cheek. Blake is unscathed. My mother in law also sent the boys home with bags full of CLEAN laundry! Am I blessed or what?
Now I am ready to run MY half-marathon. October 17 - Louisville Half Marathon here I come!!!1

Monday, September 6, 2010

Update on the Reading List

I posted a reading list for 2010. If you want to see it, go here

I have been able to read 6 of those books so far. I would have done better, but I got distracted by reading OTHER books that were not on my list! In the past few weeks I have read:
Prairie Tale - the autobiography of Melissa Gilbert
The Lacuna - by Barbara Kingsolver, on my list and a little different - more on that in a bit!
Rhett Butler's People - Donald McCaig - commissioned by the Margaret Mitchell (author of Gone with the Wind) Foundation - more on this one later too!
The Mermaid Chair - Sue Monk Kidd
Resilience - non-fiction work of Elizabeth Edwards
Handle with Care - by Jodi Picoult - about a child with Osteogenesis Imperfecta and the story of her family
Change of Heart - by Jodi Picoult - a compelling read!
The American Dream series (3 books in all)- by Michael Phillips -Christian historical fiction and very easy to read even though each book is about 500 pages

I still intend to read the other books on my list. I have recently seen a couple of other books suggested by Beth Moore on her blog - Total Truth by Nancy Pearcey and Choosing to See by Mary Beth Chapman. I am DEFINITELY going to find these two books. I am also planning to start reading Grace Based Parenting by Dr. Tim Kimmel and Radical: Taking Back Your Faith from the American Dream by David Platt (our married couples small group will be reading this in the fall).

In a subsequent post I plan to unpack my "reviews" of the books I have read above. I am still processing The Lacuna - I had a hard time getting into that one at first. Rhett Butler's People got my heart all swirled up into the pre and post Civil War era and reminded me of how I fell in love with Scarlett O'Hara as a young teenager.

Reading is such a gift - a blessing to be transported to another place and have your mind stretched and challenged in different ways.

Sunday, September 5, 2010

10 miles

The weather was BEE-YOO-TI-FUL!

There was a bit of a breeze, but the sun was shining full force.

Tara and I decided to hit the road, literally. We wanted to get in a 10+ mile run.

We set out from my house and I was trying to keep up with her. I run at a slower pace than Tara anyway, but since my whole crazy tetanus shot reaction, I am really just building back up!

I had remarked to my husband earlier that we needed to stash some water bottles somewhere along our route so we could have a water break. I have run several 5K races with 2-3 water stops and we were running 10, not 3! He said we'd be fine - it wasn't going to be that hot. (I should have done it anyway!)

We did pretty good - got to the halfway point and turned around. With about 3.5 miles to go, I was really exhausted. I just needed an energy boost. Several runners I know swear by gels or jelly beans for energy. I have never tried those. Today I was wishing I had some! I was so dehydrated that I could not even lick my lips.

I kept going, though I felt like it was a "crawl" at this point.

A little less than 3 to go - I started feeling dizzy and seeing stars. YIKES!

I told Tara to keep on going - I would walk a bit and try to run again. I walked about .5 mile and then started jogging again. She got to Sonic and asked for ice water. Water has NEVER tasted so good to me! After we drank our water (and chomped on those wonderful little ice pellets!), we took off for the home stretch.

OH - we made it home. My time was deplorable. But other than walking for little stretches at the end, we did pretty well.

When I think where I was just about 6 weeks ago - not able to walk, joints in excruciating pain, taking ibuprofen around the clock - well this is a blessing!

Hopefully I'll feel blessed in the morning when my legs refuse to get out of bed or walk :)