Tuesday, July 27, 2010



Jenny and I are going to be hosting a Bridal Brunch on Friday, August 13 for our friend, Cack. She is marrying the Worship Pastor at our church the next day. Jenny's little girl, Cora, is the flower girl. My Noah is the ring bearer. We are already praying the two of them are on their best behavior and cooperate enough to walk down the aisle and do their thing. They just have to look cute in the pictures, right?

Anyway, I will post more pictures as we get ready, but we have some FABULOUS ideas for the decorations, food and favors. The colors are green and hot pink (two of my favs!) and coordinate with her wedding. The picture above is the invitation I just sent out for the Brunch!

I am making topiaries for the tables and we have some great ideas for the favors.....I'll post more pictures as we get each part made!

Friday, July 23, 2010

Searching for an Answer

I cannot believe I have not posted a blog since July 10. I went to my mom's for a week and then literally - all Heck broke loose.
I don't know how many of you know about my planned trip to Honduras with my church. I was scheduled to leave two days from now. We were going to San Pedro Sula. I have purchased "first aid" items, drink mixes, have my packing list together and worked on encouragement care packages for each of the 20 people going. The last "big" thing I had to do was get my tetanus shot booster. I had already had the Hep A and B shot series when I went to El Salvador to serve through the KBC Disaster Relief 9 years ago. I didn't want to wait until this week to get it, so last Monday, July 12, I went to my doctor and got the shot.
I then got in my van and drove 6 hours away to my Mom's. I did not give it a second thought. I have had shots through the years and never had a reaction. I mean it was a TETANUS SHOT! Routine, right?
Tuesday morning I awoke to a small rash on my left underarm. That was where I got the shot. They had told me a stiff/sore spot at the site of injection was common. I have sensitive skin, so I didn't think much of the rash.
We swam and played outside all day at my Mom's. We cooked dinner and stayed up way too late that night!
Wednesday morning, I awoke and the rash had spread down my arm a bit. Again, I did not think much of it. My mom had some anti-itch lotion. I put that on and went about my day. We were in the pool and playing all day long. I noticed there were a few spots on my right arm. Jen, Mere and I stayed up to watch a movie and I took some Benadryl. I fell asleep during the movie, Dear John, which I never do!
I woke up on Thursday morning to a rash down both arms, on my elbows and on my thighs and knees. I started feeling a little achy, fluish even. I called my doctor at home after looking up tetanus shot reactions online. He confirmed that I was most likely having a reaction to the shot. He said I needed to come in and get a shot of cortisone. I told him I was at my Mom's. He said I needed to get to a clinic/ER there and be seen.
Mom took me to a local ER. They saw me, gave me Benadryl, and oral steroids. I also got a prescription for prednizone to be taken for 5 days, each morning. I went home, the Benadryl kicked in and I spent the remainder of the afternoon on the couch, asleep. I woke up and felt a little better. We went to a local pizza place and took the kids to a park. I came home, packed up our stuff and watched the movie, FAME, with Jenny and Mere.
Friday morning, I got up, took my medicine and drove 6 hours home. I was tired, but ok. Saturday, I felt a little wiped out, but had a lot to do. I was preparing for some work I needed to do at school on Monday, doing laundry, preparing for Honduras, etc. Blake had a ballgame at 3 and we went to that. I made bookmarks to give out at church the next day with a list of people who were going to Honduras and things to pray for each day.
Sunday, I woke up at 5:45 and was so stiff and in a lot of pain. All of my joints were stiff. I had to have Greg's help to get in the shower. I ate breakfast and took my steroids. I went to church and didn't know how I would walk up the steps onto the stage. I made it through the practice and sang at both services. I got home and was wiped out. I needed to take a nap, but we had a team meeting for Honduras at 3:30. I went to that and came home. By then we needed to do dinner. Jenny and I walked about 2.5 miles that evening. I was feeling tired, but ok when I went to bed.
I woke up Monday morning and could not get out of the bed. Meredyth was coming to watch the boys so I could work at school. I waited until she got here and took a shower with much difficulty. I noticed my left hand/fingers/wrist was very swollen. I decided to call my doctor's office back before taking the steroid. Several people at church had mentioned to me the day before that swelling could be a side effect of the steroid. My doctor said to stop taking the medicine. He instructed me to keep my hand elevated as much as possible and that I should be feeling better by Thursday. I went on to work and got everything done I could and came home and crashed. I stayed on the couch the remainder of the day. I continued to swell. By the time I went to bed, my whole body was in pain and swollen. I could not sleep and was very uncomfortable. I had to have Greg's help to get up and go to the bathroom throughout the night.
Tuesday morning, I woke up and it seemed the swelling had switched to my right side. I was tired and felt weak, but the pain seemed to subside some in the day. I took it easy (as easy as you can with three boys!) and did a few things around the house. I went to bed that night hoping to be on the upswing.
Wednesday morning came and my left hand/wrist/arm were swollen again and hurting worse. Greg stayed home for a little while that morning and helped me get ready. We called the doctor's office and they said I should come in - the next day. They instructed me to continue to keep my hand elevated. Wednesday was Noah's birthday. I was determined to do something for him. Jenny offered to drive us all to Lexington in my car so he could get his weekly allergy shot. We went to Chick Fil A and let the kids play in the indoor playground. I came home and rested while the boys took their naps. We went to Greg's parents for dinner and celebrated Noah. I was tired and felt a little weak, but ok. I came home and after we got the boys in bed, I laid down on the couch. Greg went for a run. When he got back, I could not get up to walk to bed. He had to help me down the hall to our room. That is when the real fun began!
About 1:30 am, I awoke in extreme pain and had swollen all over again. I tried sitting up and couldn't do it. I got Greg awake and he helped me to the bathroom. I sat down and then felt I was going to pass out. I yelled for Greg and he caught me as I was heading for the floor. I then came to and passed out again. I got violently sick and we decided I needed to go to the ER. Greg called my sister, Jenny, to come over with the boys and took me to the ER. By God's grace, a friend of ours was working. Crystal got us in and checked in and people were jumping everywhere. They did an EKG, took blood, hooked up an IV and asked a lot of questions. They ruled out a few really bad things(rheumatoid arthritis, heart problems, etc) and decided it was still a reaction to the tetanus shot. They gave me anti-inflammatory and pain meds through the IV. I felt better and eventually they sent us home.
I spent the day at my sister's so she could monitor the boys and make sure I didn't pass out again. I stayed in the recliner or on the bed all day. I felt ok - no pain and no swelling. I was hopeful that I was getting better! We called the doctor and his office said they could not get me in until Thursday (of next week). They would have all the labs from the Er and some that were sent off.
I went to bed early, taking ibuprofen and thinking Friday would be better. I woke up stiff and in some pain, but not quite as bad as it had been. I told Greg to go on to work - I'd be ok. A little later I finally got up and went to the bathroom. I woke up - not sure how much later, draped over the bathtub, with the shower on. I had passed out, somehow grabbed at the faucet and turned it on. WEIRD!!! I yelled for the boys and Blake finally came in there. I got him to dial Greg on the phone. He got Jen to come over until he could get here. I stayed on the floor until he got home. I have spent the better part of today in my bed. My mother-in-law came over and kept the boys and continually checked on me. I have slept off and on all day. I still feel completely wiped out.
I had to tell Drew, our team leader, that I absolutely could not go to Honduras. I let someone else take my airplane ticket. I am so disappointed. I have been looking forward to this trip. I really felt that God wanted me to go. I had some reservations about leaving my family for a week, but I was trusting God to take care of them!
I am searching for answers and trusting that God has a purpose and plan for keeping me home. I am frustrated and want to feel better. I am a go-go-go person. I have things I need to do for my boys, for back to school, for friends, for my home. I am NOT a good patient. I want to know what is wrong with me and GET IT TAKEN CARE OF NOW! I can only hope and pray that resting today will help. Greg's parents took the boys for the night. I am going to go to bed and try to rest some more.
Please, if you read this, join me in my prayers that God will heal me from whatever has taken over my body.

Saturday, July 10, 2010

Random things my kids say....

Noah was sitting beside me on the couch one day and lovingly said, "I love sitting with you Mommy. You are so soft!" I am going to take it that he was speaking about my t-shirt and not the status of my body :)

Last week when we were leaving the zoo, Noah was holding my hand and looked up at me with a very serious face. He proceeded to say, "This was NOT a perfect day for the zoo!". That was all he said - he would not elaborate on it.

Last Saturday after my run Blake and Noah wanted to know when they could "go run a big race like Mommy did". I guess that is worth all the running right there!

The last week of school I had to go into the office to do something. There were probably 5 or 6 people in there and I had Andy in my arms. JUST as the principal walked up to me to say something, Andy blurts out at the top of his lungs, "STINKY DIAPER!". Gotta love that one :)

While floating out on the lake last weekend with his Grandma, Noah said he wanted to have a jet ski. Grandma said, "Well when you grow up you'll have to work hard so you can afford to buy something like that. What do you want to be when you grow up?"
Noah replied, "I am never going to grow up and I am never going to work!" UH OH!

The other night I was holding Andy before bed and asked if he wanted to pray. He said, "Yes!". So I said "Thank you God for our friends" and he repeated it. I said, "Thank you God for our family, Daddy, Mommy, Noah, Blake, Andy, Grandma & Grandpa..." and he cut me off and said, "Thank you God for Annie (our dog) & Sassy (Greg's parent's dog named Cassie). I said, "Thank you God for Jesus" and he said, "Yes!" and then we both said "Amen". So precious!!

Last weekend out of nowhere, Noah looked at Greg and I and said, "Are we all going to live to 100 and then die?" - we have no idea where that came from at all!

One morning this winter, Blake sat up in his bed when Greg went to wake him for school. He said, "Daddy, do magnets not stick to spaghettios cans because they don't have any iron in them?". WHAT??? Evidently they were talking about magnets in school.

At Jenny's the other day, all of the boys were playing and dressing up. She overheard one of them say, "Cora is the fairy princess and we have to protect her!". They all had on various pieces of Carter's knight costume from Halloween.

I could go on and on......

Thursday, July 8, 2010

Fabulous Friday and Fourth Festivities

Friday, July 2 we took the family to the zoo. Greg took off work and we spent the day seeing all the animals. Here are the favorites:
Cb - penguins
Blake - the "mist" in the gorilla forest and the monkeys
Noah - snakes
Andy - giraffe

Saturday was Blake's 7th birthday. After I ran in the Bluegrass 10K that morning, we packed up and headed to the lake for birthday and 4th of July celebrations. Blake and Greg's dad share a birthday. Our good friend and babysitter, Kayla Fawbush, came to the lake from J Creek where she is a camp counselor. We did presents and watched the marina fireworks.

Sunday, we went out on the lake. The boys LOVED the water, the SeaDoo, the boat and being with Greg's parents. We saw more fireworks that evening put on by neighbors (who have their own explosives license).

Monday & Tuesday were also spent out on the lake. Noah had a meltdown Monday from sheer exhaustion. I would not count it as a high point for the weekend. He literally could not make himself stop crying. He finally fell asleep on the boat ride back into the marina.

I introduced my kids to sparklers - I think I was as excited as they were to use them :)

Andy slept 2/3 of the way home - this NEVER happens. On the way down to the lake I think he talked the ENTIRE way. He was truly wiped out from all the fun and sun.

I am not sure I can repeat the past week or top it this week. We have simply been recovering from all of the fun. I like being away, but it is always nice to get back into a routine. Laundry is done and other tasks are being completed.

Next up - my parents are coming in this weekend. Blake has a ball game Saturday. The boys' birthday pool party is Sunday evening. Monday, Jenny and I are taking kids for a week to my Mom's. More fun!!!

Thursday, July 1, 2010

I am thankful for.....

There are many things I am thankful for right now - in the midst of our summer. I will try to list them (in random order )

-Legos, Duplos, Megablocks, Bristle Blocks and more. If it stacks, builds and creates my kids love it. These keep them busy and using their imaginations A LOT!

-Playgrounds

-McDonald's coke - any size for $1 for the summer - HALLELUJAH!

-Friends with in-laws with swimming pools who let us come swim minus a crowd and free of charge!

-Big bear hugs from one of my little guys!

-Strawberry Golden Oreo blizzards from Dairy Queen

-100 calorie mini ice cream sandwiches

-time to scrapbook my precious boys and our memories

-Freedom to speak my mind, stand up for a cause, worship God and the ability to vote!

-God's continued provision in our life

-Friends and family who love my family

-the American Flag

-Facebook and friends I have re-connected with on there

-Parents and in-laws who have fabulous homes on lakes (and who let us come stay whenever!)

-My newest niece who will be born in late October!

-My grandparents are still living and going strong :)

-Air-conditioning - especially in the past few weeks!

-My husband's amazing work ethic and his job that blesses us financially.

-A membership to the local zoo

-Swimming lessons and tball league

-Planet Heroes

-Batman & Robin

-Library story hour and checking out FREE books

-Matchbox cars and fold-up garages

-Text messaging

-Grace that only comes from Jesus' sacrifice

-A cool breeze when I run

I could go on and on......but these are the ones that immediately came to my mind.

Enjoy your day!